How to Make a Girl Squirt - Tips to Pleasantly Surprise Her
Written by Jeff Ferrara on June 17, 2016
Foreplay is key to starting her out.
If you're like me, you just want to get right in it, foreplay be damned.
However, to understand foreplay is to treat it like an artform. It's like musicians, they don't play music because it's awesome, they do it to get all the girls. While not completely true, there is some truth to this statement.
As you learn to play your instrument and practice, you get better and better. Then as time goes by, you learn the details and intricacies of the music you're playing and how to make it better and appealing.
Pretty soon, you become a master at it, and it's because you started to appreciate it for what it was - an artform, and you'll win all the women with your skills!
The instrument you're playing is the woman in front of you
Anyone who thinks it's easy to play this "instrument" is completely wrong.
There's so many details to consider. You have to press, probe, and lick. You need to have great motor skills with your fingers, hands, and tongue. You have to be gentle, yet forceful. You have to learn 'form' and how to escalate. You have to respond by using your multiple senses of sight, sound, and touch.
How to be great at foreplay
So we know that being great at foreplay takes practice, but what exactly you should you do?
Here are some things on the foreplay checklist to consider getting good at:
- Rubbing her breasts, clit.
- Touching her all over - hands never stop touching.
- Whispering and breathing into her ear.
- Kissing her on the mouth and all over.
- Learning how to take off her bra and the rest of her clothes elegantly.
For more details check out our comprehensive guide on how to be fantastic at foreplay and how to get better at it.
Understand where the G-Spot is and how to stimulate it.
Unfortunatly sole vaginal stimulation is not going to be sufficient to make her orgasm and squirt.
It's not impossible, but incredibly difficult - so you might as well use all the tools at your disposal - most notably, her G-spot.
The G-spot for a woman is on the front wall of the vagina.
How to stimulate the G-Spot
To simulate the G-Spot simply making a "come here" motion with your fingers and use the tips of your fingers to rub that front wall from the inside.
As always, check to see how she responds, and don't even be afraid to ask her how it feels. You don't have to ask her explicitly "Is that where your G-Spot is?" - you can be more subtle and instead say: "Does it feel good?".
For a more detailed guide on how to stimulate the G-Spot, see our guide here.
Dispelling any mental blocks, fears, or anxieties that she may have.
You may be the most confident guy on earth, but you being confident will not completely dictate how she feels when she's fully naked and exposed to you.
And when it comes to her squirting (and her orgasms in general), you need to relax her mental state so that it's even possible for her to squirt.
See, for women, sex is more mental, while for guys, it's more visual and physical. This is the biggest hurdle that guys fail to understand and overcome. Simply knowing this fact will allow you to break free from sexual mediocrity and girls will instantly know it, boosting your sexual reputation with them.
Next thing you know, she'll be calling you up for sex more often, because she's comfortable that you can make her cum, and she knows what you're capable of - see, it's all in her head, even the anticipation leading up to the sexual encounter.
Make her feel safe.
This is the first, basic step. There's no way that she can feel safe if there's still doubt in her mind about what is actually going to go down.
Making her feel safe is also natural - you can say simple loving things, like "I'm going to take care of you" or reassurements like "I'll never hurt you."
It's not beta to do this, the complete opposite actually.
You may feel weird doing this, but give it a try, don't need to say it aloud and embarass yourself, just whisper it into her ear - it'll really relax her and set her up for mental pleasure to follow.
Obviously, the more experienced girls are more confident in bed, so you probably can skip this step, but if you're dealing with virgins, less-experienced, or those girls that don't have sex as much, then this can go a long way. Having this situational awareness is extremely empowering and girls can pick up on these small things.
One mistake that guys make is that they don't give any verbal cues with what they're doing next - so this can create some anxiety in the girl and they will naturally tense up to what you're about to do to them physically.
Remember a small amount of verbal communication can go a long way - no need for Shakespeare or Miranda rights, short statements reassuring her, calming her, and even teasing her at what you're going to next is what you should aim for.
Do not underestimate the power of lube.
Lube is another tool at your disposal - don't be ashamed of using it.
Let's understand one important point - if the girl is not wet enough, then it actually physically hurts to touch her inside due to the friction from the dryness.
Women and girls have the naturally biological ability to "get wet" which serves as a natural form of lubrication.
The negative "snowballing effect" of her going dry.
However, it is very possible (and I've experienced this numerous times), for the girl to go dry in the middle of the act. This has a snowball effect.
Let me explain: If the girl starts to go dry, then she starts to feel uncomfortable during the phsyical things you're doing to her, and then eventually it becomes painful.
All while this is happening, her arousal level is slowly decreasing more and more. So actually you're doing the act of giving her pleasure if you decide to try and stimulate her and there isn't adequate lubrication.
This "snowball effect" also kills your escalation, the one key factor to making a girl squirt.
It's super easy to tell when she's going dry
So how can you tell when she's going dry, you ask?
Well, you're the one touching her aren't you? You can immediately feel her down there and diagnose her "wetness".
The solution, just keep a bottle of lube handy nearby!
Doing this is really easy. Most girls that masturbate also tend to keep some lube with them so this may save you in a pinch if you're going over to her place.
The Second Biggest Tip: Use the Big 3 Stimulants to Make Her Squirt
This is the second biggest tip to making her squirt. We will tell you the absolute biggest tip after you understand this first one.
Ah, the most popular female organ to stimulate. Obviously you can do this with your fingers or tongue.
Just be aware, it's very sensitive, and you can easily tell - if you suck on it, most girls can't handle this. In fact, they'll tell you to stop.
Do deep penetration of the vagina
Obviously, to rub on her vagina walls, you're going to need a wide penis with lots of girth.
Length also helps because the vagina walls also go longways as well.
Overall, since we know penis enlargement is 100% possible, we highly suggest improving both your length and girth to get a "complete" full penis for your sexual encounters.
You can also stimulate with your fingers, and this is great because it allows you to have more conscious control with her clit as well.
Lastly, the G-Spot, remember, rub her frontal vaginal wall as described above.
It's obviously harder to do this with your penis, especially if you're lacking in the girth area, so don't be shy to use your fingers instead.
Combining all three of these points of stimulation will allow you to amp up the physical arousal.
Start off small, increase the intensity, and one by one, add in all three stimulation methods to get her to squirt.
The Absolute Biggest Tip: "If It Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It"
What does this mean?
Simply put, it means that if you're getting good reception and reactions from her - like her moaning or verbal cues like "don't stop" or "right there" - Absolutely, don't stop or change what you're doing.
So many times, guys will actually be doing some sort of stimulation that works and change to a different type of stimulation. That's the biggest mistake that guys make.
Instead of changing, increase the intensity, or add something to what you're already doing.
Think for a moment how sex toys and sex machines can reliably make her squirt.
Moutned Sex Machines
Do not be afraid to use toys and other "tools".
When it's all said and done, her squirting orgasms is an absolute pleasure to experience for both you and her.
That's not to say you shouldn't do it with toys and tools. The idea is to help you out, because believe me, getting a girl to squirt, let alone stimulating her to orgasm takes a lot of work.
One of the most useful tools you can use: Phenibut
When I say tools, I'm sure the first think you think of are vibrators and the works. But did you know probably the best tool that you can use to get her to squirt is a edible supplement called phenibut?
Phenibut is a legal, FDA approved, supplement that comes in the form of a white powder, and you simply consume a few grams and it will amplify your libido. It has been reported that the libido-boosting effects are even stronger in women.
Since phenibut also has "relaxing" effects, it's even better because as we just said, relaxing her is a requirement to making her squirt and orgasm.
To learn more about phenibut, check out our comprehensive guide on phenibut here. The total number of beneficial effects will shock you.
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