How to Use a Penis Extender Sleeve to Improve Her Stimulation

Written by Jeff Ferrara on December 26, 2016


a typical penis extender sleeve

What is a Penis Extender Sleeve?

Extender sleeves are not to be confused with therapy penis extender devices.

Sleeves are silicone sex toys that you slip onto your penis to make it artificially and temporarily wider.

Therapy extender devices are used to increase penis length peramently through hyperplasia (a technique that is also used in plastic surgery).

To be honest, the extender devices are better because they're clinically proven through various studies to work.

But penis sleeves are not bad if you're looking for a fast, cheap and temporary solution to spice up the bedroom for her.

Why would I want to use a sleeve?

One word: Girth.

According to a survey done by Cosmopolitan Magazine, they found that over 80% of women preferred a girthier (wider) penis when it came to maximizing their pleasure for sex.

In fact, they found that the women's most ideal penis size was 6.9 inches long and 5.5 inches in circumference.

So if you're just short of these numbers, don't worry because there are options to improve your size.

The short term option for girth?

Penis Extender Sleeves.

However, we will also discuss the permanent solutions later on in this guide article.

What to look for in a penis extender sleeve.

It needs to be comfortable.

This is something a lot of guys over look.

That's because if it's not, it will literally make your sex life miserable.

Instead of sex being the most pleasurable thing on the planet, it could possibly turn into the most torturous.

It needs to be durable.

Typically this is not a problem, overall.

However, using it many times combined with washing it after every use, the surface area of the penis sleeve may start to wear.

If that happens, it can make it less enjoyable when it "goes inside of her".

All silicone sex toys will eventually degrade over time and use.

The key is to pick one that will last a really long time.

The easy rule to follow?

Look for products made out of medical grade silicone.

That's all you really need to do.

The sleeve needs to stay on.

This is another big one - if it doesn't stay on, it's practically useless.

Buying one that fits your penis while having a maximum erection is key.

So take a measurement of your penis circumference and write that number down before you buy it.

If you need help on measuring your penis, here's how to do it properly.

How to use an extender sleeve.

Here are the steps to put on a penis sleeve.

  1. First make sure that it's clean (for both you and her).

  2. Get and maintain an erection as hard as possible. This is for stability.

  3. Stretch open the hole of the sleeve and slide it as far back as posible on your erect penis shaft.

  4. Add some lubricant to the surface of the silicone penis sleeve. You must do this step.

  5. Proceed as you normally would to have sex!

Here's how to actually use the sleeve during sex.

One thing you have to keep an eye on is, whether it is sliding off your penis.

Unfortunately, there is no quick solution to this because it means you need to find a tighter sleeve.

The other way to make sure that it doesn't slip off is to make sure your erection is hard 100% of the time.

Think about it.

If your penis becomes flaccid, of course the penis sleeve is going to slip off!

This is a big problem for the guys with erectile dysfunction.

So if you have a hard time having and keeping an erection - you may want to check out our tips on how to keep your penis as hard and full as possible.

Or you can take this homemade formula on a natural tea you can make to improve blood flow to the penis. After all, blood flow is the key to fuller and harder erections.

How to clean a penis extender sleeve.

Here's what you have to do after you use the penis sleeve.

Remember, you have to do this, because if it's going to go back into her, it has to be clean.

Don't want anyone getting sick.

Only use hand soap.

In order to clean the silicone penis sleeve, just wash it thoroughly with hand soap.

In fact, don't use any other abrasive cleaners or chemicals to wash it - just hand soap and water.

Dry it completely after washing.

This is actually pretty important.

If you don't dry the sleeve completely, it has the potential to house bacteria which can thrive because of the extra water and residue on the sleeve.

This is bad for the same reason for not cleaning it - you or her getting sick from using a dirty toy.

When drying just take a towel and pat it dry to absorb all the water.

Patting it dry is highly recommended over wiping it dry because this way you can get all the water off without leaving cloth dust and threads on the sleeve.

Once you get 95% of the water off from pat drying, the rest of it will come off within 5 minutes from evaporation.

Serious Alternative Methods and Techniques to Sleeves.

Probably the most popular one: Jelqing.

Why should you care about jelqing?

Well, for one thing - it's completely free.

How so?

Because it's a penis enlargement exercise that only requires the use of your hands (and lube, if preferred).

In a nutshell, it involves "milking" the penis by wrapping your thumb and index finger around the base of your erect penis shaft, and stroking downwards towards the penis glans.

This pushes blood into all the cavities of your penile tissues, effectively filling them up and causing the penis to expand wider than usual.

You can even try it yourself, right now in your room!

Or you can just check out real photos of some of the results here.

The results involve a permanent increase in girth - so its actually preferred over a penis extender sleeve.

These results have been widely reported on various penis enlargement communities like the PEGym and Thunder's Place.

However, you have to work for it as if you were doing exercises at the gym.

To buy an extender sleeve for a immediate "fake" girth increase or to do jelqing exercises to get a permanent "real" bulkier penis?

The choice is yours.

All I can say is, you can actually feel her vaginal walls on your penis with the jelqing results - not with the sleeve.

Penis Pumps.

There are short-term and long-term effects to using penis pumps.

The short-term effects are clearly noticeable both visually and by touch.

For example, if you were to hold your flaccid penis in your hand after using a penis pump, it will noticeably feel heavier.

It would also be indisiputably bulkier as if you were holding it a sausage loaf rather than a typical hot dog.

Learn how to use them and what to expect here.

In Conclusion

Ultimately, a penis extender sleeve is a quick, temporary solution for a deeper problem - your inadequate penis size.

It primarily targets girth - something most women really want when it comes to maximizing their pleasure through stimulation with the penis.

Maintaining an erection is key to making sure it doesn't slip off when using it with your partner.

Additionally, you have to make sure to keep it clean with hand soap and water to ensure that you and your partner don't get sick after using it.

A penis extender sleeve is a tool.

Take good care of it and it will take good care of you.

When looking for one, make sure it is made out of medical grade silicone and you should be good.

There are many ways to get around the issue of "less than ideal" penis size as we've also mentioned in this article.




But if you're looking to add a permanent .7 inches to your penis through natural stretching, hyperplasia, and traction principles already used in plastic surgery methods - you may be interested in our tool that thousands of men already use.



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