Does Penis Size Matter to Women? - A Woman's Take on the Subject

By PhalloGauge Medical

Updated on August 16, 2018

a man in his underwear pointing at his penis

So does penis size matter? The answer:

A lot of girls will answer, when asked, that size doesn't matter as much as what you do with it, but if you are far below the median, it does make a difference.

In fact, sometimes it's even hard to feel anything if the guy is really small, and it places limits on what you can do.

I'll be brutally honest here, if your penis is below average – It matters to women!

Some positions are not even possible to do because it will keep falling out, which kills the mood quickly and gets annoying for the girl.

Stuff like that makes me want to just stop in the middle of sex.

"It would be a lie to say size didn't matter for me. When I'm dating a guy, and my mind wanders to how much he's packing (because, yes, my mind does go there and usually rather early in the game). I'm generally hoping to see something around 7" or up when I have sex with a guy. I hope for a large dick."
-Anna, 30

a woman lying in bed not sexually satisfied

If you have a dick of average size, or larger, they usually don't mind at all, unless it's way too big (extremely rare).

I think above average is great, and the best sex I've had has been with guys who are slightly above average.

It means you can do any position instead of only certain ones, and you know you will feel everything.

Plus it just makes him look better.

When you research the topic, it's easy to see that it's divided, and it's probably safe to assume that half of women care about size and half do not.

a man and woman having sex in bed

Regardless of the mixed answers one gets when trying to figure this question out, it's safe to assume that having a bigger penis makes sex easier all around.

It takes less effort and stamina to please your partner and creates better pleasure for both parties.

Sure, there are girls out there who will insist that they really "don't care", but a lot of the time they're probably trying to be nice and don't want to seem superficial.

Plus, considering the fact that about half of them definitely care, odds are, you're going to run into quite a few of these girls, unless you decide to become a priest or something.

It's very important that a guy you're having sex with knows how to use what he has. In fact that's one of the most important things. We've all heard that before, and it does have some truth to it.

Unavoidable limitations for guys 4 inches and under.

I hate to break it to you, but this means that if you are working with 4 inches or less, no matter how you use what you have, there are inherent limitations to what you're capable of.

Doggy style is one of the most pleasurable experiences, and it's nearly impossible to do with a guy who is too small. That's so disappointing.

a frustrated couple in bed that can't have sex properly

"It makes a difference but that doesn't mean the sex is always better or that it's an absolute must. But if we're drafting up a sex wish list here, then yes, please."
-Michelle, 28

For you average fellas out there (5 to 6 inches), you're in a pretty neutral position that can work one way or the other.

Almost all women will be okay with your size, but to stand out, you need to improve and make sure you are really good at sex.

In a world full of average guys, being average on its own is not enough.

a man sufficiently pleasuring his woman in the bedroom

While small guys could thrust as hard as possible and still not accomplish anything, and average guys have to put in some more work to stand out, large guys hit the good spots without even having to try.

This means that while some of us women may not care if you're average, most of us would prefer it if you were a bit bigger, and there are some good reasons for that:

a sensual couple that's about to have sex

Sex feels much better with a bigger guy. One amazing thing about sex I it can always get better. Even if you've had the greatest sex in your life, it's possible to go higher.

You don't have to wear yourself out needlessly. Having a bigger penis means you won't have to constantly try to come up with crazy positions to hit her hot spots, or thrust with all your might and tire quickly, making it hard to have long sex sessions.

a very sexual looking woman who wants it

If You Have a Girlfriend, It Penis Size Might Matter

This stuff is largely contingent upon whether you have a girlfriend, or if you're just looking for casual hookups.

If you have a girlfriend, just ask her straight up. If she doesn't care, you probably don't need to worry.

After all, there's a chance she might already be satisfied with your size.

If your lady does mind, and this consequently makes you mind, then it's probably a good idea to start looking for ways to enhance your size. There's nothing to worry about though, because we know how to solve this problem.

If You Want a Girlfriend (Especially an attractive one), It Matters

Trust me, attractive girls always have lots of options, and the competition can be stiff.

Having a large dick helps if you want to attract a girl and keep her around. If she's dating around, she'll be more likely to remember you if you have something that sets you apart.

Size sets you apart from other guys.

After all - there's only so few attractive girls to go around.

Attractive, cute, hot girls know they're beautiful.

Anything you tell them won't convince them otherwise.

But the simple fact is:

There are not many of them to go around.

The're a rare in number.

So if you're not competitive and can't offer these "more-desired" women something over the other guy - how can you expect to be with them, let alone, have sex with them?

Hard truth: You can't.

So yes, in thise sense, penis size does matter, 100%.

Don't believe the BS Hollywood movies where the beta male gets the girl in the end - that's a fairy tale (quite literally in most cases).

"Yes, dick size matters. I always roll my eyes when people say otherwise."
-Sarah, 30

When Not Looking for Commitment, Penis Size Definitely Matters

Let's say your goal is the same as many guys out there; to get with as many women as possible.

This makes your situation very different.

The fact of the matter is that most girls looking for casual fucking or one night stands want a bigger cock to play with.

I have some friends who like to casually hook up with guys they find hot, and they've told me about how disappointing it is to finally get him home and find that he has a small or average dick.

I mean think about it, women who are at least reasonably attractive have their choice of men.

They don't have to settle for less than their ideal guy.

a statue with a large horn that looks like a penis

If you come across ladies you like a lot, and dick size is important to them, then by association, it automatically should matter to you as well.

There are a million things that are more important than this, and we know that. That's why making sure you never have to worry about it is a really smart choice.

For example, height is a quality that women look into, but it's even worse because you can't get taller, even if you wanted to.

Does it Matter to You?

Even if you mostly care based on what girls will think, that still means it's important to you.

If your goal is improving your confidence, it matters a lot.

If you want to get to your highest abilities sexually with hookups, it matters.

If you related to any of the information so far in this article, it's probably time to give yourself some honesty and accept the fact that it does matter.

If you're in the rare situation where it doesn't matter to you or the girls you get with, that's fine, but unlikely.

Therefore, you answered your own question: Penis size is important to you.

The best way to do that is to get a bigger dick and not even have to think about it anymore.

a woman happy about her man's penis size

Guys should try to be bigger, if two things are satisfied: 1. They want to be bigger, 2. It's completely possible.

Number 2 is satisfied - we already know that from these studies.

Number 1 is completely up to you.

The creators and contributors of PhalloGauge have been unwavering in our conviction that every man should aim for a larger than average dick.

What is the point of not reaching for excellence in every area?

The average penis size is about 5 to 6 inches.

That's okay, and most girls won't complain about that, but most of them (when being honest) would say that an extra inch would be nice.

Every male can extend his dick by at least 2 inches within his lifespan, so this is a very achievable goal, and worth striving for. There's really no reason not to.

Having a penis that is bigger than the average size is what will lessen competition for you, and make you stand out among the others.

A lot of guys are lazy and don't bother to try to improve in this area. So what? Let them be lazy.

This counts in your favor, because it makes it nearly effortless to be better than average and even make it to the top quarter of men on the entire planet.

Yet another good reason to go for it.

a condom tucked in a woman's bra

Considering all of the information we've laid out for you here that proves that your size does matter, and the reality that you can quite easily achieve bigger and better, you can assume that there exists absolutely no valid excuse for not making sure you get a larger cock.

If You Want to Strive for Excellence, You Have No Excuse

What we're saying here applies to all men who possess motivation and are willing to work for what they desire.

It doesn't matter if your main activity is swimming or science, if you want something, and there's a possibility that you can have it, you have no reason not to attempt acquiring it.

If you're one of those guys who has real motivation, real drive to achieve greatness, you simply have no good reason not to do this.

To deny this ability is to deny what it means to be a man.

Why Settle When You Don't Have To?

Why do you let yourself go through life worrying about this when you don't have to? Don't you have better things to do? Is there any reason to take unnecessary risks? It's undeniably true that it's better all around to be larger than smaller.

This is a Worthwhile Pursuit, and Permanent

When you work out and gain definition and muscle, the results only remain as long as you continue your routine.

This is not the case with penis improvements. Once you gain length, it's permanent and stays forever.

And luckily, after you gain your size, you'll never have to worry about this ever again.

It'll be a hurdle in life that you will overcome forever.

This is something you can keep completely to yourself. There's no reason you need to share it with others thanks for the innovative development of quality traction extender products.

These make the whole process super easy, as well as discreet.

Although everyone has big dreams, not all of us are meant to be top executive or famous athletes We have to work with what is within our control, and what it's possible to be successful with, using the tools we are given.

There are already so many things in this life that are unattainable, and that's a disappointment. We can't change those things, and have to come to terms with that.

This, on the other hand, is really quite simple to accomplish, so the thing that makes the most sense is going out there to get what we truly desire.

Are you done making excuses now and settling for less? Are you done blaming "fate" for things "out of your control"? Good, then get out there, put some effort in, and achieve the things that are within your control.

a winner on a mountain

This is more than just a larger penis. I mean it's great to know you can wow women with what you're packing, and give them fantastic sex, but that's not the only reason it matters.

Improving this aspect of your life will help you in absolutely all areas.

Being more confident sexually will make you more confident with everything else in your life, as well as make you feel more like a real man.

(The statistics used here were taken from

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