How to Be Cool - A No-BS, Practical Guide for All Time

Written by Jeff Ferrara on September 20, 2016

a cool man simply being cool

You want to be cool - but here's what you should really aim for.

What you should be aiming for can be summed up in one word: charisma.

Think about it.

What is charisma? Charisma is none other than the force of attraction of people to you.

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Most people, like you and I, want to be cool because we want other people to think we're cool.

And that's where the focus lies - what other people think about you and perceive you as.

If we can harness and master the force (that is, charisma) that draws people to us, then we've achieved our goal of being cool.

In other words, if we can understand what psychologically causes people to be drawn to other people - we'll have an actionable roadmap on what we need to change about ourselves to be charismatic, and thus, cool.

The Charismatic Roadmap to Being Cool

The mindset traits of cool people.

This is basically how cool people think.

They don't care.

Do not mistake this for laziness. This couldn't be farther from the truth.

Some of the coolest people are doing well for themselves and basically have one thing that allows them to not care: F-You Money.

F-You money is basically your cash stash that ensures you're fully self-sufficient and you don't have to rely on someone for survival, security, or any other desired asset.

The most common example is when some makes a killing in any field (career, stock market, business, lottery) and they don't have to work anymore - they can basically say F-You to their boss and day job.

Now, you don't need to have a million bucks to have this mentallity (although it helps a lot).

However, you can accumulate a certain degree of wealth (which doesn't necessarily have to be money) to serve as "ammunition" to your "don't-care-cool" attitude.

Charisma Capital

Naturally, if you want to have the "carefree" attitude just discussed, you're going to need something (if it's not money, as mentioned above) to source it.

We'll call it "charisma capital".

You could improve your looks and be the most handsome guy in high school - that would be one method of achieving "charisma capital".

Or it could be a cool talent that people like and are attracted to - singing or playing the guitar, well, keyword: well, are good sources of charisma capital. There will be scarcity in these sources of capital because not many people will be able to do these well.

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